Beckybambam: “Every Woman Needs Self-Respect and Ambition, Not a Sugar Daddy”

Nollywood actress, hotelier, and creative entrepreneur Becky Nwanacho, better known as Beckybambam, has made a bold statement on women’s independence and values, asserting that self-respect and ambition—not sugar daddies—are what every woman truly needs.

In an open conversation with Potpourri, Beckybambam shared insights into her personal and professional journey, touching on hot-button topics from feminism to Nollywood dynamics and relationships.

“Self-Respect Over Sugar Daddies”

Asked about the perception that every single woman needs a sugar daddy, Beckybambam was emphatic:

“I don’t agree. Every woman needs self-respect, ambition, and independence—not a sugar daddy. While some may choose that path, I strongly believe women are capable of achieving their dreams without depending on anyone for validation or survival.”

On Feminism

She described feminism as a call for equality, not dominance.

“It’s about creating a society where women’s voices, dreams, and contributions are valued just as much as men’s.”

Social Media: A Double-Edged Sword

Reflecting on social media’s impact, Beckybambam noted both the positives and negatives:

“My best experience has been connecting with amazing people who truly appreciate my work. The worst has been negativity, but I focus on the positive energy and supportive community that keeps me going.”

Navigating Nollywood Friendships

On industry relationships, she acknowledged the mix of authentic and superficial bonds:

“Like every industry, Nollywood has both genuine and fake people. I’ve met colleagues who became family, and I’ve also experienced disappointment. The key is knowing your circle and keeping your values intact.”

Her Acting Journey

Recounting her early days in film, she shared:

“It may not have been the lead, but it gave me confidence that I belong in this industry. That first step lit the fire that still drives me today.”

Her film credits include A Tale of Love, Obsession, In Her Shoe, Sinister 3, Talk Your Talk, Unseen Battle, and Office Romance, among others.

Role Models and Mentors

She named Bimbo Ademoye, Nancy Isime, Sharon Ooja, and Bisola as role models:

“They remind me that consistency and character are the true currencies of success.”

Relationship Values

When it comes to love, Beckybambam places character over material wealth:

“Respect, kindness, ambition, faith in God, and humor matter to me. A man who understands partnership is a treasure.”

On Body Enhancement

She emphasized body autonomy:

“Confidence comes in many forms, and women should own their choices. Do what makes you feel good and happy.”

Defining Love

Beckybambam believes love should never come at the cost of one’s identity:

“Love is about sacrifice and compromise, but it should never cost you your dignity or your dreams. True love allows you to flourish, not diminish.”

Beyond Acting

Apart from Nollywood, Beckybambam has carved a niche in hospitality and digital entrepreneurship, building multiple income streams to support her artistic passion.

With a mix of purpose, resilience, and entrepreneurial flair, Beckybambam embodies a new wave of Nollywood stars rewriting the script—on and off the screen.