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5 Successful tips to maintain a healthy relationship -By Clement Pius
Respect each others opinion: it is an established fact that all human are shaped by their psycological disposition. One of the apparant area most relationship suffer evolves around respecting each others subjective belief. For two to be compatible, learn to accomdate each others stance so as to enhance the smooth-flow of the relationship.
Relationship is often like bed of roses at its initial stage. More juicy being in the arms of the one you truly love and care about. Without doubt, every relationship has its own cross to bear. It is a fact one cannot dismiss by whimper that not all relationship leads to happily ever after.
While one thing would definitely leads to another, the bitter fact of love begins to unfold from the inability of parties to accomodate their individual differences. Below are 5 sucessful tips to maintain a healthy relationship:
1. Avoid communication gap: constant communication is the lifeblood of genuine relationship. A general aphorism contends that ‘communication is power’. It is not just a way we express ourselves but share feelings, thoughts and ideas. It can be use to either solve or cause problem, thus, communication gap can be unhealthy to the growth of any relationship.
2. Respect each others opinion: it is an established fact that all human are shaped by their psycological disposition. One of the apparant area most relationship suffer evolves around respecting each others subjective belief. For two to be compatible, learn to accomdate each others stance so as to enhance the smooth-flow of the relationship.
3. Learn to be friends: Friendship does not necessarily dwells on sexual intimacy. It beyond that. The pitfall of many relationship starts when the parties involve tries to maintain their self-esteem so as not to feel denigrated. You must learn to understand and play with each other. You must learn to build positively on each other and make the relationship worthwhile.
4. Don’t be too judgemental: this often happens in a distant relationship. More worrisome is for relationship that lacks trust. It is very okay to have common sense, but along the line, develop good sense of judgement and spirit of discernment. Sometimes, what we feel does not always translate to what is happening at the other end.
5. Learn to forgive each other: A marxim once said, “forgiveness is not about letting someone off the hook for their actions, but freeing ourselves of negative energies that bind us to them”. Forgiveness is an integral part of relationship. As we journey through life, we must take into cognizance that peoples’ actions do not only offend us, but ours offend others. As a matter of importance, we must learn to forgive so as to keep the bond growing.
Pius writes from Minna
Can be reached via Clementpius0@gmail.com
