A Piece of Advice for Young Ladies of Nowadays -By Sheu Sa’ad Onikolobo

With my little knowledge and experience, I have discovered that the environment has negative impact on the ladies of nowadays; this is a result of bad companies that our ladies are engaged in, nowadays which has a negative influence on our society and the parents did nothing to curb this malady.

We are now in an era, where ladies are not concern about losing their virginity to a man called ‘boyfriend’ which supposed to be her pride in the face of her husband and his family and great dignity and respect for her in the first night of love with her husband. In those days, women are being respected and valued because they preserved their virginity and it would be difficult for any young ladies to go out and have sexual intercourse with any man who is not legally married.

In the olden days, we have heard and learned from elders how ladies are being pampered and respected and how they are being kept securely beyond the golds and silvers which drove the men to succumb and develop the highest level of respect and interest for them. The reason for this is that they protect their virginity which is their dignity in the face of their husbands. Comparing the women in the olden days to
this present ladies is just as if we are comparing light with dark; ladies of nowadays have adapted to welcome different proposals within an hour, many per week, and many more within a month.

The women of olden days maintained their high level of respect and dignity and are very intelligent which moved them to try their possible best to distance themselves from making the environment had
negative impact on them by emulating their predecessors who are their mothers in the olden days.

Women have been naturally endowed with qualities that will make them to be loved and look attractive to their opposite sex, but yet, they are still using the instruments to cause a problem to the world by using heavy makeup and dressing seductively in order to divert the attention of the opposite sex to them. The bitter truth is that no man will be attracted to settle with the public toilet where men are dumping all their refuses.

Let me describe how valuable and respected ladies are in the olden days; Description of how to cherish women are is something beyond my reasoning, the ladies are being ranked and respect religiously and
morally because of their virtuous act in protecting their dignity and their values.

The girls of nowadays have turned themselves to goalkeepers that can never succeed a week without conceding goals, which has brought down their esteem and nobility and it has become so rampant to the extent that there is no way how they will not discuss in gatherings of men, how some women have turned themselves to a public toilet where they can pour down their refuse and go away.

This situation has become so worse that men are being pleaded to accept what they planted in the womb of the women, because of lack of modesty and shyness to engage in fornication which has been regarded as a normal thing nowadays.

It is so saddened that, I don’t know how the upcoming generation would survive this when the unwanted pregnancy is being delivered here and there; the generation is producing mothers who don’t know the importance of abstaining themselves from engaging in illicit sexual intercourse. What’s the assurance that the upcoming generation will not emulate this present generation? I am very sure that it
would cause a negative impact on our environment.

There are thousands of divorce cases in court; this is a result of the fact that, most women have lost their dignity before marrying their husband and this has resulted in a situation where men don’t know their worth again in this our contemporary world. Had it been he has suffered or met his wife in a good state after marriage, he would surely respect her and wouldn’t want to lose her for anything.

We are now in a century where people are not feeling shy about their illicit act which leads to immorality in our society and in a situation where shyness is not in existence, immodest would definitely take place and anyone who feels no shy can prone to what he or she wants which actually increase the high rate of an illicit act in our society.

If ladies are not ashamed of working nakedly, either by way of liberation or civilization, the rate in which ladies would depreciate their esteem will be high and our upcoming daughters are not saved from
this, we ask God to guide our sisters and change their minds to let them understand their values in society.

On a final note, I am using this medium to advise our ladies to emulate the good act of the women in the olden days, so that you can be respected and treated like a queen by your husbands. At the time our ladies protect their dignity, modesty would reign and our upcoming generation would be saved from this mess.

Sheu Sa’ad Onikolobo is a final student of Biology Education at
University of Ilorin.