Be like a spouse you wish to have -By Nura Habeeb

In an everyday discussion amongst young
people especially if it turns to marrital hope, in
our birthday wishes from other people or even
ourselves, a graduation celebration and all other
rejoicing events hope and receive a good spouse
wish “Miji nagari I wish” “Mata tagari I wish” and
we heartly show any sign of appreciation for
such an accolade being it a very significant part
of our lives that can determine many things. No
any person wishes to receive a harsh treatment
from their spouse irrespected of being good or
bad.

No matter how we run our lives, the harmonious
matrimonial hope remains unforgetable in our
minds, it is an inherent wish we tiredlessly pray
everyday. Thus, we try our best to secure a
good spouse, yet, many of us do not care to
mould themselves to become like the spouse
they wish to get, though aware that
togetherness between good and bad is not
possible.

It becomes a tradition when one wants to
propose, the investigation of the spouse they
want to propose to, is the first step. Also, in the
part of the proposee, it is also a vital measure
to be taken before the acceptance. Having
found with a faulty feature, the upconnection is
automatically aborted, all in an attempt to get a
proper life partner and I believe anyone likes
that to any of their blood, then why won’t you
be a kind of spouse appreciatable to anyone
whom you happen to be their life partner?

Unfortunately, many folks not only to
themselves but have been the cause of others’
misconducts and unethicalities, becoming the
agents of devil in the society by promoting an
aberrant life, abetting in the distruction of their
future, yet, they pray for the bright one, does
that sound possible please? The cases of social
vices dominate the behavioural discourse
ranging from adultery, fonication, raping,
smoking, drug abuse, mistrust, theft, bloodshed,
to mention but a few. Plenty plain examples of
people using advantage of social achievements
such as wealth, knowledge, admission to tatiary
institution, power, job to conterminate the
community are on ground. We forget that
prayer works with action not just lip service.

In closing, one shouldnt forget that what he
does is what he is worthy of, so if you want
good you must be good, if you choose to remain
ill-minded, then prepare to have same spouse.