Duo Needs Assurance (DNA) -By Anoruo Immaculata Oluchi

The issue of Deoxyribonucleic acid DNA has become disturbing in recent times in Nigeria, this is as a result of the high cases of infidelity in marriages.

No one deserves to be tricked or spiritually manipulated into marriage. Marriage is too distant to be built on lies and deceits.

Never you leave the man or woman you love for the one you like.

Never you let go of the person you are building with for the person you think has finished building.

Most men and women use a systematic approach to make you think they are the one. This include forcefully acquiring the skills they know you would want in a partner and would not resist. But that is not who they really are and they are bound to wear their real skin later.

How well do you connect with him/her? If you have been together for about three years and you
are not yet telepathic, it is a red flag.

Being available at all times and in all things does not make them the one, it means that they have stopped developing themselves, discarded their personal dreams just to help you pursue yours and this is often very unhealthy and does not turn out well in the nearest future.

Desperation is acidic. If they are willing to compete and fight with others over you, then you are into a very long thing because their sole aim is to win the trophy at all cost to show how powerful and smart they are, not that they really can do anything for you.

If they give you wild se.x and are ready to twist their bones to meet your fantasies then, you just might need to figure out where they learnt it from and how long the experience will last because all of that is meant to impress and influence your decision.

If the decision to be with you is not entirely theirs. If they are with you based on other people’s opinions about you, Uncle or Aunty, you need a recheck. Would they still choose you if they are left to choose alone?

If you know you will or that your partner will still desire their ex or other new people but you think you can handle it. You are on your own.

Because it is heartbreaking to discover that your partner is cheating on you. If that has been established the relationship will start having cracks with high level of suspicion that can propel the idea of DNA test to confirm the paternity of a child especially when the man suspects.

Marriage is sacred therefore, people should be careful on how they go about it. Love, respect and faithfulness should be the watchword of any couple to reduce the chances of each party suspecting the other.