My love life has been riddled with challenges -Juliet Ibrahim

Delectable actress Juliet Ibrahim is a beauty to behold any day. Despite her personal challenges which almost changed her story, Juliet has remained a believer in her ability to rise above her challenges.

She strikes anyone as a woman who’s capable of making any man drool with lust.

But surprisingly, the half-cast actress hasn’t been lucky with love. First, she broke up with her Nigerian rapper boyfriend, Iceberg Slim, who later confessed that he cheated and took their love for granted.

Thereafter, the actress went into marriage, and the union with her ex-husband Kwadwo Safo lasted after four years. In this encounter, the beautiful mother of one described her love life as one that is ‘riddled with challenges.’ She also talks about her personal experiences, mistakes she has made in life and how being a mom has changed her world among other things.

I have followed the story of your journey of life and it’s one that repletes with resilience and drive. How did it  make you a better person?

That journey of resilience has shaped me into a stronger and more determined individual, teaching me the value of perseverance in the face of challenges. Mind you, for me, it’s not just about facing challenges; it’s about evolving, adapting, and emerging with an unyielding spirit. As the saying goes, what doesn’t kill you makes you stronger.”

Were you not surprised at the woman you have become after the hurdles you had to cross?

In my story, God plays a significant role. When I reflect on where I started compared to where I

I am now, and the woman I’ve evolved into, I can’t help but give myself a pat on the back. I don’t claim to be a superwoman, but I take pride in the growth and strength I’ve found within myself.

It was a revelation of my strength, making me recognize that challenges aren’t roadblocks; they’re stepping stones shaping us into someone stronger. This is one major reason I had to author a book and share my journey with others.

When you were passing what you passed through , were you abused by anybody along the line or mentally derailed?

I have openly shared about abuse in my book ‘A Toast To Life’ and on my social media platforms and so on. During these stormy times, of course, mental struggles were inevitable, and

Navigating mental struggles during tough times was undeniably hard. Yet, it became a profound learning experience, revealing the strength within to deal with adversities and stay resolute. I found ways to cope, overcome, and emerge stronger, avoiding any lasting effects.

Being a single mom, how has it changed your world?

I love the beautiful chaos of parenthood, being a single mom has added a new layer of responsibility and love, but I’m not complaining, it brings me immense joy and fulfillment that redefines my world and I wouldn’t change being a mom for anything. Above all, I’m a mum,

‘Single’ is just a qualifier and it doesn’t make me any less of a mum and that’s all that matters.

The main lessons revolve around self-love and self-development — which I believe is a prerequisite for any journey. Then resilience, a trusted beacon guiding me through storms, and lastly steadfastly adhering to one’s values, both in personal and professional spheres.

Aside acting, you are also an author and a businesswoman, what would you say has been the height of your happiness in the past few years or more?

Happiness, for me, is rooted in doing what I love. Juggling various roles as an author, a businesswoman, actress, director, and filmmaker adds significant value to my fulfilling life.

However, the pinnacle of my happiness is motherhood. It’s an immeasurable joy, a role where I feel at my absolute best.

What has your mantra been over the years, while choosing a script?

In choosing a script, I look for projects that reflect my values and challenge me creatively. You know, substance over superficiality…. It’s about growth and pushing boundaries.

Have there been any insecurities you have had as an actress?

Certainly, insecurities often linger in the shadows of success. However, embracing them has become an integral part of my growth, transforming vulnerabilities into strengths throughout my journey as an actress, director, and producer.

Would you agree that you have not been so lucky with love. First, you broke up with your rapper boyfriend, Iceberg Slim, and later, your ex-husband?

First, my ex-husband and I ended a decade ago and not recently. My love life has been riddled with challenges, but they are just chapters in my story, not mere strokes of luck. Every challenge in my story teaches me a lesson and each relationship adds layers to my narrative of growth.

Given your experience, would you advice any young lady to jump into marriage without proper check on her would-be life partner?

Take your time with marriage, it involves emphasizing careful consideration, ensuring compatibility, and aligning with a partner who has shared values. It’s about making choices that resonate with long-term happiness in partnership.

What was the mistake you made that you wouldn’t even want your enemy to make?

Rushing into commitment without asking the right questions about the person’s past experiences including family history, and their plans and not having mutual understanding, compromise, communication, and lack of respect. I still see so many young ones making these mistakes. It’s a  cautionary tale, urging well-thought-out consideration in matters of the heart.

If the opportunity calls again, would you give marriage a second chance?

Should the prospect of marriage arise once more, I will approach it with the wisdom gained from my past experiences. And that’s a lot—a combination of lessons learned, growth, and my new found clarity.

Does relocating to Nigeria open doors of opportunities for you?

I wouldn’t use the term ‘relocation’ as it suggests a final move. I still shuttle between Ghana and Nigeria. Nigeria is my home, and this experience has been transformative. It has not only opened  doors of opportunities in my career but has also provided new experiences, broadening my horizons along the way.

What are your plans for 2024?

I recently launched my YouTube channel Juliet Ibrahim Studios and I am working on  several other projects and a podcast. In 2024, I’m poised for continued career growth, exploration of new horizons, and a commitment to making a positive impact in various facets of my life. It’s going to be a year of intentional and purposeful living.