Steer Clear From Sexual Immorality -By Abene Umbugadu Abene

Sexual morality was on the high increases all over the world. Adultery is fast becoming the norm and some men of God are also joining the club, married men and women are not left out either, many are having secret lovers and emotional affairs are becoming the order of the day
The rate at which immorality is increasing was alarming, it is spreading fast like harmattan fire, into every nook and cranny and children are also being initiated in the club. Its no news to know that 8-10 years old kids now have sex with each other.

Staying sexually pure these days is becoming a Herculean task. One of the reason people tall flat into illicit sex is over confidence.

The wrong belief that you can be free around the opposite sex, you will fall flat on your face, that is the truth. The earlier you believe this and work on it, the better you can’t be careless around the opposite sex and hope to stay sexually pure.

There are some people who can’t be your friends, it’s okay to raise the standard. Anybody call you names, that’s their headache, you have your destiny to protect.

As a rule, I don’t make friends with liars, gossip and jealous people. They make life so complicated. If you believe in illicit sex, we can not be friends.

Monitor Your chats. Don’t allow anybody send you dirty messages, no matter how innocent it sounds, warn them and if they refused to stop, block them. Limit the hugs and touches, especially with the opposite sex, if your hugging anointing is only for me, I want none of it.

Don’t allow anybody call you pet name (except your close family member and close same sex friends if necessary) a friend recently made me realize that it doesn’t make any sense. Pet names turn know that, know it right now be sensitive to attractions. Don’t naïve around the opposite sex, know when men/women is sexually attracted to you, try and move back from that person. If they focus too much on your physique and body, they are sexually attracted to you, move back.

Don’t jump at new relationship. Give it time, study the person, known what they stand for, see if you care values are compatible, if not, move back.

Avoid indecent dressing, dressing that so not cover substantial part of the body should not be wear.

Mind the picture you post on social media and stop unnecessary visit to opposite sex at night.

These are the things you need to do to stay sexually pure, all your life. People may laugh at you, it doesn’t matter, they may call you a neurotic, psychotic, fanatic, over sensitive or paranoid, don’t let that bother you.

Your destiny is too precious to waste on the alter of sin. Avoid friend who make fun of your holiness and make friends with people who appreciate purity.

Finally, avoid the second look, as far and much as possible. I agree perfectly with job on his resolution never to look lustfully at any lady.

Accept gift with care, men don’t joke with their time and money. If he spends so much time and money on you especially when you do not ask, he may one day ask for sex.

Stop begging men for money. Work with your two hands and raise your standard. Men will respect and honor you for it.

Work on your marriage. Fix the problems as soon as possible or else you get attracted to someone who give you what you lack in your marriage, adultery would be the result.

Conclusion
Be prayerful, and be watchful,
Don’t stay with opposite sex in a dark or lonely room. Don’t counsel the opposite sex in a dark or lonely room.

‘I made a covenant with my eyes, why then should I think upon a maid? Job 31:1 you can avoid the second look.

Set your boundaries and never allow anyone to compromise your holiness. Be a conqueror.

Written by, ABENE UMBUGADU ABENE